The holidays are lonely times, but it does not need to be that way. I am only a letter away. I am a 45 year old, with blue eyes, 180 pounds, never married, with no kids. I am lonely and need to settle down. I am very adventurous and enjoy vacation, camping, motorcycles, boating, farming, cooking, and it is no fun to cuddle by a nice fire alone. I have made mistakes, but I have learned from them. I was raised on a farm by military grandparents, who instilled old fashioned values within me. However, I did explore growing up from being a beach boy in Miami to the night life and selling antiques in NY city. Happier times were running my own small town restaurant. Working hard made me feel so good. Today I am lonely sad and in need of a companionship, whether for romance or just best friends. It's time to move forward and I am only a stamp and a letter away.